You know that you are in a relationship for quite some time, when, even though it is the valentine’s week, and your love anniversary is round the corner-
You both say that you are busy, busy. Of course, it does not help that you both are living in two different cities and that one has work deadlines and the other college deadlines.
There is no real excitement… especially since talking on the phone has also become a redundant activity. And, ‘Oh, baby I just called to say I Miss you/ I love you’ is not exciting anymore. I know I sound like a crazy hag, but then, that is what it is. I mean, I am one person who totally believes in story book romance, and I for once have not yet taken a real onus to get the just right thing for my sweetheart. On the contrary, I am not looking forward to the V day for the first time since I started understanding the concept of Valentine’s Day.
I think I am getting old… or maybe we really do need some spice in our lives…
But, it is not that I am not happy about completing five years of being in a committed relationship. It is such a pleasure to know that there is someone who loves you, for the person you are. This time- instead of looking at the past year, I am looking forward to our future.
I just hope- That all turns out to be fine.
This blog is basically a chronicle of my life, and my emotions, since the time I first left home, in search of the oblivion, in quest of my ultimate goal. This blog has a lot of my memories that still manages to churn out a plethora of emotions within me, every time I wade through the cobwebs of my memory. While I was just a little teenager when I started with it, today I am in the transition phase of being a man of my own stature. And the journey still continues.
11/02/2010 at 00:40 Permalink
I'm pretty much in the same spot as you are … just minus 3 years from your 5 year commitment …. and the spark seems to have been taken over by the mundane activities of daily life.
You're not alone
22/02/2010 at 09:55 Permalink
haahahhaha…it happens man..i kn how u must be feeling alone without ur gf there with you in person….but dont get upset…..all will be well…this dull moment will pass soon…